参加聚会 take part in/join in/attend/go to parties 我们的文化 it has been a culture of our country 真不知道为什么但真事儿 I don't know the specific reasons but it happens for real 上班的人 some employees who have been working for many year/ people who sit in the office… 拒绝 say nope/refuse/give up 找到平衡 find a balance between family time and regular work